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Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Excuse Me, God? There's Been a Drastic Mistake...

As much as most of us would like to think we’re in control of our lives, at some point it becomes dreadfully apparent that any semblance of control we’re clinging to is a flimsy façade at best. Life just isn’t as rosy as we thought it would be, even for those of us who call ourselves believers.

Once we recover from this initial shock, we begin to grasp that circumstances will sometimes occur that we didn’t expect, didn’t ask for and frankly, that we don't like. God’s word tells us “to everything there is a season” (see Ecclesiastes 3:1). I’m sorry to tell you this will include seasons of suffering. No one is immune to the barrage of hardships and hurts life frequently heaves our way. Suffering is an equal opportunity affliction.

When God allows suffering into our lives, it’s tempting to think He has made a drastic mistake. “Excuse me, Lord? I’m hanging on to this gravely ledge by two feeble fingers…” Our hopes, dreams and plans zoom right over the edge of that unforgiving cliff. We’re helpless to do anything. Or so it seems.

When our lives come crashing down around us, we are essentially left with two choices. We can either fight the purposes of God—and I believe we often do this without realizing it—or we can surrender to the season that the Lord Himself has allowed to come our way.

This summer I’ll be sharing some insight into the “Why’s?” of suffering. I believe that when we have at least a measure of understanding into the purposes and plans of God in our lives, we will be less likely to fight them, and more able to clearly recognize God is at work within us and around us—for our good. (See Romans 8:28)

Then, even when things don’t make sense to us, we will be more likely to surrender ourselves completely into the Potter’s hands. And less likely to jump off that cliff.

This week's question: Have you endured what seems like a drastic mistake?

Next week: This isn't what I signed up for...I quit!



13 comments:

B His Girl said...

I am looking forward to your post on this deep stuff Julie. Yes there are seasons for everything but after these 'times' the Lord give us an outcome. Eccl 3:11 He makes everything beautiful in its time. I cling to that. B

Deb said...

Julie,

I'm visiting from Melinda's place. Just want you to know that I love your blog.

I'm looking forward to reading your up-coming articles.

Will be back soon.

Thanks!

~*~KIMBERLY~*~ said...

Yes. The good news is God is right there to pick me up and dust me off and put me back on track. Likewise with each of us. But, are we willing to relinquish our rights to God and let God handle the situations? I choose God!

Rachel B said...

Our miscarriage (and the d&c surgery I had to have afterwards) last fall definately could seem like a big mistake. However, I'm really relying on the Lord for this one. I can see already how He has worked through the situation. Still, I don't understand it...but I DO trust Him.

Looking forward to hearing more throughout the summer!

Chappyswife said...

Absolutely. I never planned to be on the detour we've been on for 3 1/2 years.

I can say in no uncertain terms I have never been made of the stuff that it takes to hang on for YEARS through these kinds of trials. Without the Holy Spirit, I don't know where I'd be.

Jody Hedlund said...

I have definitely been through times where I thought I was living through a mistake. But in hindsight, I can see God's work in ordaining both the good times and bad. Looking forward to your posts!

Wendy said...

Yes...still working through the pain of something like this.
~ Wendy

Rebecca Stuhlmiller said...

Several years ago I read through the foundational books of the Old Testament, one chapter a day, for 296 days. Then I did it again. It changed my perspective on life: the highs, the lows, the good, the bad. I learned that all we go through has been gone through before. I'm trying to keep that in mind as life happens.

ginny said...

We were not prepared for job losses here in our household. I became physically sick with worry, then I realized that God always takes care of us. There is something to be said of suffering. It can be a source of grace or it can be an unbearable burden of pain. It has been a rough road these past two years, however, God has seen us through so far.
I love your blog. It ministers to me for sure.

Spring Fricks said...

Wow, I can't wait to read more.

Terri Tiffany said...

Yes--right now and still am!! With no jobs and no income for more than 7 months--it doesn't seem right but I know He has a plan.

Melinda said...

This is great, Julie. We ALL can relate to this on some level. As you know, I have a little boy with cystic fibrosis and have had my house nearly destroyed by a hurricane. Big mistakes it seemed like, but I know God used and continues to use both of those things in my life. It all comes down to trust. Do I trust God? Do I believe He will only allow those things that will be for my good, even when I can't see it? It's a choice to believe that every day, sometimes every moment. Looking forward to your future posts on this topic! ;0)

KelliGirl said...

Julie,
This is great! I think that understanding suffering is one of the greatest challenges to our faith. You have such wisdom and a teaching heart I can't wait to read what you have in store for us.

Also, it's great to see you working on a theme. I haven't been able to be so disciplined with my blog as of yet.

Hugs,
Kelli

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